Every Conflict Is a Mirror: Discovering Yourself and Your Partner in Marriage

My wife and I had a serious argument recently. It was not small.

After we calmed down and made peace, something hit me very strongly.

I thought I knew her almost fully, but I realised I am still discovering new sides of her, even now.

In that same moment, I also saw new things about myself. Every conflict is like a mirror.

You see your own weakness and your partner’s hidden feelings.

When both of you choose to learn instead of walk away, you come out better and closer.

That is one of the hidden gifts inside a healthy marriage.”
— Banky W